Friday, September 30, 2011

Diaper Talk: Shifting to Cloths

How apt to write on diapers after my previous dramatic blog entry :) After all, my life changed when my baby came. He just turned one last week, and he inspired me to make the choices I did.

As a doctor mom, I shifted to cloth diapers primarily due to health reasons. Caleb has been very prone to rash with disposables. I kept 3 dozens of gauze diapers, and used good old reliable nappy covers. It was like doing bedside (monitoring) with a patient, haha. Boy, was I vigilant for his weewee.

Back then, I didn't know how the new cloth diapers worked, I had no one to ask them about, they were hard to find and I was stalled by the very dear price. Until I decided to try them out.

My purpose for this entry is to inform. I find it pressing after a handful of queries from other moms. (By the way, did I mention that I run an online eco mom and baby store?)

Ok, they are cute. But do they really work? For me, it is a yes :) In fact, Caleb stays dry overnight with just one shell with 2 inserts, without leaks. In the morning, he plays around with them and change every 2-4 hours. It really depends.

Here are some FAQs:

1. How do they work? 
They usually come in 2 parts: the SHELL (or cover) and the INSERT. The SHELL has a water repelling inner cloth layer so that baby's tushy stays dry, and a waterproof outer layer so that everything else outside the baby stays dry (that includes papa, mama, sheets, floor, etc.). The INSERT is a highly absorbent cloth that you sandwich inside the shell. When baby weewees, it goes straight into the insert and everything else stays dry like magic.



Done. That simple :)

2. Is it worth the investment?
Go figure. How much are you guys spending for disposables? We only use them when we go out or when we have run out of cloths. Also, if you are considering cloths, it is best to get them while baby is young. One size diapers actually grow with the baby (ONE-size, as in one-size fits most). I am actually satisfied with the fit of Caleb's diaper. They have cleverly hidden adjustable leg panels and sturdy snap-ons. They should fit a newborn up to a 36month-old toddler.

3. How to care for them? 
They are machine washable! Care should be taken however. Don't let any fabric softener or harsh detergents touch your precious cloths or they may loose some powers. These stuff tend to leave a film, making your diapers less absorbent. This can be fixed through a process called stripping. But that's a different topic.  I prefer handwashing, and I use biodegradable soap.

4. Don't they stink? 
Over time, cloths would be stinky because of ammonia wastes in the weewee. To get rid of that, just add 2-3tablespoons vinegar on a small basin for your first or second rinse. Don't worry it wouldn't smell like datu puti once you had the third rinse  (did you know that vinegar is a natural fabric softener too?). Baking soda actually helps too :)

5. What about the yucky poop? 
Surprisingly, the solid stuff actually comes out by just knocking it off the toilet bowl. Stubborn dirt easily rinses off under a mini shower (say under the faucet or a bidet).

6. Are they comfortable? 
Some moms that say they're a bit hot for our climate, and I noted that too. But it really depends on your baby. Caleb seems happy naman (and he really love to go shirtless, so maybe that compensates, haha).

7.  Is "goodbye rashes" a promise? 
Cloth diapers does not equate to zero diaper rash. It's still a caretakers lookout! Important is to make sure baby is dry and comfortable no matter what. For this system, an insert usually works 2-4 hours, depending on the baby. (A friend even tells me her baby was on it for 5 hours for certain intervals).

8.  How many do you need?
It really depends on factors like the age of your baby, your washing habits, diapering system, etc. Some suggest 12 per day for a newborn. Well, newborns don't have regular poop patterns yet so they are bound to soil more. For older babies, 8 a day could suffice. That is if like me, you wash at the end of the day. Some combine this system with disposables, or gauze diapers. A friend shared that her baby's yaya would actually use prefolds when she runs out of the inserts. Brilliant!


Hope my experience helped you out. Don't get overwhelmed with the reviews because it is actually easy. It's about finding out which system works for you and your baby.

Happy cloth diapering!




Thursday, September 22, 2011

Happy Birthday to ME!

For some doctors, birthdays mean expiring PRC licenses. I could actually ask someone to renew it for me but there is a certain thrill to doing it on my own. After all, it's my first time.  And it takes on a whole new meaning just thinking of how I spent the last three years of my life as a doctor. I remember my lengthy post on FB two years ago while I was still a doctor to the barrio.  I want to share it here with you too...

One year after getting my license number, here are the perks that have come along with my job…

I got waived professional fees from fellow doctors attending my family.
That was the first perk i have enjoyed, even before I got the license.

I got to address a big crowd in Heroes Hall, Malacanang , and bring my family in the restricted premises

I now live in an area of pristine white sand beaches..
for stretches it is possible to not see anyone else but your own shadow
once I have snorkelled and bumped into a school of fish with bright colors,
forming a wall unmoved by my presence, each fish spanning almost 1 foot.
for someone unlearned about the sea, that was the most glorious sight

I had my beach wedding in one of those beaches.

And since I am surrounded by sea, I eat fresh seafoods –
Fish – lapu-lapu, tanguili, suran, molmol
Lobsters!!!
Cuttlefish, octopus, squids (now I know the difference),
Sea urchins, sea cucumbers (1thousand a piece in manila), sea worms
Seaweeds of different species…

I get treated with utmost respect and importance..
when I visit the island baranggays, I get the feeling that they feed me with
the best that they have. believe it or not, in some islands fish are hard to come by.
so they feed me their precious chickens. in some islands, they serve humongous
inihaw na fish, fresh out of the sea

I became the graduation speaker in the municipality high school.
And the graduation speaker of a school in the next municipality.
I was also invited to give a career talk to high school students, in yet another
municipality. Oh, and there are only 3 municipalities in my area!

When you pass by, schoolchildren would say "moyang damaldamal doktora" (good
morning doctora), complete with the gesture of hand in the chest and bowing of the
head.

All of this is quite very humbling.

I got to stay for 4 nights in an exclusive resort nearby.
Amanpulo is just within the vicinity (so everyday I enjoy the same expensive sunset
for free) 


I get to travel, on official business.  Latest, an all expense
“honeymoon” to Coron and Culion courtesy of Malampaya :)

My life is a constant adventure, everyday meeting different people, everyday a different challenge. Sometimes you get the rush, sometimes things are plain. There’s so much variety.

One year after the boards, I do not regret any of the choices I have made. 
As Frederick Buechner said, "The place God calls you to is the place where your deep gladness and the world's deep hunger meet." 



Reading this unearthed piece brought some tears because my life is so different now. And still, I do not regret any of the choices I have made :)

--- “By the grace of God, I am what I am, and his grace to me is not without effect” 
I Corinthians 15:10


Tayay Island, Agutaya, Palawan

Wednesday, September 14, 2011

I have a blog, yeah!!

Ok, I said that the last time I discovered facebook notes. 


I am impressed how Blogger evolved to be user-friendly for normal people like me. Last time I checked, I can't even figure out how to stop it from translating everything into Tagalog. 


Simply great. I should tell my friend Mights that I could come to their next bloggers meet.